Stop+Bullying

Bullying is a serious problem. Chances are, you have experienced bullying, whether you were bullied, you bullied someone else, or you saw someone being bullied.

BULLYING STOPS HERE!

While bullying is a normal part of life, it is not something that anyone should have to put up with. Bullies are not going to disappear on their own, you have to take the steps to get rid of the bully. Here are some ways to stop a bully for you or anyone:
 * 1) **Put on a brave face.** When you let a bully know that you are afraid of them, it is like giving them power. If you give them some power, you will find that the bullying gets worse. So, put on a brave face, and never show your fear
 * 2) **Have a friend around.** Bullies are reluctant to go after someone who has backup. Bullies usually pick out the weakest person they can find, and there is strength in numbers. So, stop a bully by having a friend on hand all the time
 * 3) **Avoid the bully.** There are some situations where bullying is worse because it is an ideal situation for a bully to go after their victim without any consequences. If there is no adult around, no authority figure like a teacher or parent, then they can bully without fear of getting caught. So, avoid these situations. On the playground stay where other kids can hear, where the playground monitor is around, etc.
 * 4) **Ignore bullies.** A lot of what bullies do is for a reaction. They say or do things to see what you will do. If you want to stop a bully, just ignore their efforts, soon they will find someone else. Whether it is bullying online or in person, ignore, ignore, ignore
 * 5) **Confront the bully**. One of the things that you should do is confront the bully. Ask them why they are bullying you. Ask them what the problem is. Ask them to stop. Bullies are rarely asked to face the reality that they are being a bully, so make them face it.
 * 6) **Report the bullying**. Bullies can't bully for long if they are getting caught. The beginning of getting a bully to stop has to start with an authority figure. So, each time someone bullies you, tell an adult. If it happens at school, tell a counselor, a teacher, or the principal.
 * 7) **Improve your self-esteem.** Bullies usually pick on kids who have low esteem. They look for people who are weak, isolated, that feel alone, and have few friends. There is less chance of them being caught that way. Work on your esteem, and you won't be picked on long.
 * 8) **Control your feelings**. As mentioned previously, bullies look for reactions, don't give them one, and soon they will grow bored and move on
 * 9) **Stand up for yourself when it gets bad**. If a bully is physically harming you, ruining your reputation, or something else then don't put up with it. Instead, say the words like, "Stop" or "Don't" and make sure they know you are done taking their bullying.
 * 10) **Don't bully back.** It is good to say no, but don't bully in return. You don't want to be on the same level. Instead, tell someone that they are bullying you, and then do your best to ignore.

This is what i stand up for the most because, it's the biggest issue in the world right now. Kids are hurting their-self because they are being bullyied. The bullies think its funny to torture people, but it's not. Just stand up for someone, even if you don't know them, it makes a difference in the world to know that we have some people out there that's not like him

If you feel mistreated, misunderstood or isolated and think you have no place to turn, your not alone. If you don't know what bullying is i'll take the time to tell you. Although definitions of bullying vary, most agree that bullying involves: the types of bullying is serious:
 * **Imbalance of Power**: people who bully use their power to control or harm and the people being bullied may have a hard time defending themselves
 * **Intent to Cause Harm**: actions done by accident are not bullying; the person bullying has a goal to cause harm
 * **Repetition**: incidents of bullying happen to the same the person over and over by the same person or group
 * **Verbal**: name-calling, teasing
 * **Social**:spreading rumors, leaving people out on purpose, breaking up friendships
 * **Physical**: hitting, punching, shoving
 * Cyberbullying: using the Internet, mobile phones or other digital technologies to harm others

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